Public Speaking Advice - How To Deliver A Successful Public Speech

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Public speaking is something most people try to avoid and even dread. There have been numerous times over the last ten years when I have had to make a speech in front of a group of people. I needed to work out the best ways of going about ensuring that these speeches would be successful. In this article, I write about what I learnt from reading many books about public speaking, advice which has helped me to successfully deliver these speeches.

Whether it is a speech about business cost cutting, web promotion service or about becoming a professional online guitar teacher these techniques should help.

Prior to starting your speech it is a good idea to find something in the room which you can use as a focal point; this will then act as a form of inspiration to you. This may well be something that is placed at the rear of the room such as a plant or a light. There may well be periods where you forget what you wanted to say. When things go slightly amiss this focal point can help you to regain your composure and concentration.

I try not to look at the eyes of the people in the audience when I give a public speech, as this can put me off. I want them to think that I am though, as it can be a sign of nerves if they think that I am not able to. What I tend to do is to look at an area on their forehead which obviously is not their eyes but which has the effect that I am still looking at them etc.

Even though I do plan what I am going to say, I do not plan it word for word. Instead I write down keywords or key subjects on paper which I keep in my pocket in case I need to look at it. This then ensures I do not forget what I want to say and also allows me to ad lib. The speech will also hopefully now not sound so robotic and boring as it might have if I had memorised it word for word.

I always like to start off the public speech with a short joke, which can then act as an ice breaker. There was one such speech a number of years ago when I left the organisation where I had been employed. The people in the office had put to a collection and had bought me some leaving presents. I then had to say a few words of thanks to them. I knew many weeks in advance that I would have to give this speech and I have to say it did cause me quite a bit of stress.

The speech itself would only have to last for about ten minutes and would be in front of around fifty people. I began by thanking the people who had contributed to the collection and stated that I would meet the rest of the people on the street later. This is quite a pathetic joke however a couple of people did laugh. This gave me a bit of extra confidence and helped to relax me.

I also advise people to talk a bit slower than they normally do when they have to deliver a public speech. This has helped me tremendously over the years.

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